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Howdy, my name is Wade and I'm a traveler. For the past eight years I have been wandering this here planet. Nearly 40 countries on five continents. What follows are my impressions of the world as I travel through it-
The musings of the Wanderlust.

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March 26, 2008

Tourist Charity and Street Children

Tourist Charity and Street Children

I walked to the internet café tonight. They were closed. Their front gate was securely fastened shut with a steel chain and a big strong padlock; the lights inside were off. In futility, I shook the gate a few times for no good measure. The sign on the door read that they close at 10PM. It was 7PM. I suppose the owner just had better things to be doing than running his business. Businesses in Latin America only pretend that they run on a time clock like other places in the world, but in reality, a place is open only when the workers feel like working. Tonight, I suppose the internet café did not feel like working. I cannot blame them.

On my disgruntled walk home I came upon two blond 20 year old American girls talking with a little shoe-less Honduran boy under the dark eve of a street-side doorway. The kids in this town are not too bad, they don’t really ask foreigners for money, and, from all apparent conditions, they do not need to. They are well fed, clothed, and their only disparity seems to be that they are, perhaps, just a little bored. So they ply the streets looking for fun. Sometimes foreigners mistake them for beggars. Sometimes they pretend to be beggars. I know that they are not, for they live right down the street from me.

As I walked by the girls who had accosted this little boy in a dark street, I could not help but wondered if he got caught trying to nick something from them. I would not blame him for trying. But no, this was not the case. As I approached one of the girls asked if I spoke English. I said yes. Then she asked if I spoke Spanish. I said enough. I looked down at the boy. He looked confused and a little nervous. I wondered what was going on. The girls then asked me if I could ask him what restaurant he wanted to eat dinner at.

These two strapping tourist were trying to save the world by taking a boy who they think is a pariah street child out to a big expensive meal at a foreigner restaurant. The Honduran boy looked frightened.

Oh brother. Against my better judgement, I sucked it up and asked the kid where he wanted to eat, figuring that it would be the easiest way to remove myself from being an accessory. He hesitantly muttered the name of some place and pointed to where it was. I begrudgingly told the girls. The girls smiled big smiles and excitedly lead the little boy off to eat what would probably be his second dinner of the night.

I quickly crossed to the other side of the street, but I could still hear the blond girls boasting about how they were ‘giving back’ to the Hondurans. “This will be our little secret,” one said to the other, “something that we can always feel good about.”They were saving the day, and were very, very proud of themselves.

I walked away as quickly as I could. I was almost hit by a truck. But I got away before I had to witness them continue their embarrassing charade.

If a kid in the tropics does not wear shoes it does not mean that he is a beggar. But the Americans wanted to feel good about themselves by taking a perfectly normal Honduran boy and turning him into a pariah. It seems as if they came to Honduras expecting to find a country of beggars, and they made sure that they found what they were looking for. Good work. By the standards of Western culture, a young boy walking around in the streets with unwashed clothing and bare feet may be considered an orphan beggar deserving of charity. In Honduras, the boy is just a young Honduran.

As another boy of the tropics is treated like a meager, belittled serf, two more self-riotous tourist can puff their plume and boast of their generosity. They flashed their cash in the face of a boy and showed him how poor he really was. Good work.

I have noticed something: a poor man often times does not know that he is poor, unless he is made to feel as such. Some of the happiest people that I have gotten to know in this world are also some of the least wealthy. In the jungles of Peru my friends had hardly a cent to boast of between them, but they smiled their days away drinking home made liquor and playing on the rivers. They were some of the richest and most generous people that I have ever met. But these two American tourist seemed to only be able to view disparity through the lens of their own culture, and they treated a normal brown skinned, bare footed Honduran kid as a squalid beggar.

I have worked for this past month with around 40 Honduran farmers. I have talked with them daily, visited their homes, and became their friend. They have little money, but they are not poor. They go to work with smiles on their faces, work hard, joke around, and then go home to their families with smiles still on their faces. They laugh at life through the week and then get drunk or play with their children on the weekend. They are very proud of their families, have enough to eat, and seem happy. They are rich beyond measure.

If only the workmen in the USA could be this fortunate.

I cannot comprehend how these happy people can be called poor.

Travel Photos from Honduras

Wade from Vagabond Journey.com
Copan Ruinas, Honduras
March 25, 2008

6 comments:

Nicole Tolman said...

I could sit here and read your blog entries for hours. They really bring me back to my traveling days and cause me to daydream about when the next trip will be. I admire you're very "real" view of Central America and the beautiful culture and people there. I especially loved this post and how you talk about rich vs. poor. I wish the United States could be so rich in life like most countries in Central America are. The only way people can experience this feeling is to visit and see for themselves. North American society views them as poverty stricken nations...when really they "get it", they know what life is about. It's not about money and material things, and working. It's life and it's short...it's about living. Thanks for this great start to my day. Please check out my blog, The Finer Things. It's about all about appreciating and inspiring. I think you'd enjoy it and I would be grateful if you wrote your own post about a "Finer Thing" in your life. Cuidate amigo :)

Wade said...

Thank you very much Nicole. Your words made me really happy. I thought that I was putting my head in the sling for writing this post hehehe. Thank you for your wisdom. I appreciate it. I will definitely check out your website soon.

I suppose you also wake up in the morning with a big smile on your face?

Thank you for your comment.

Walk Slow,

Wade

Anonymous said...

I totally agree, some of the happiest people I've met during my travels have been people with very little money. There is definitely a lesson we can learn here. Have you traveled to Costa Rica? I've heard its one of the more stable Central American countries. I have been reading alot regarding living in Costa Rica and it is really becoming a temptation. A very informative site that discusses relocation strategies is www.CostaRicaHQ.org

SaraRoseUp said...

I remember when i realized my family was poor. I was about 11 years old and we moved to the hilly corner of Ohio (which is not known for its financial wealth) and due to some calculations made by the federal government somewhere we were deemed eligible for the free lunch program offered at school.

Meanwhile at home I was reveling in the bounty of the more temperate region of Ohio (we moved from the coast of Maine) -- I spent the summers picking and eating peaches, grapes, pears, asparagus, blackberries, every kind of vegetable from my mom's garden and milking the cow in the evenings -- fresh raw cow milk and cream is amazing and certainly didn't make me feel poor. We ate deer meat and a calf named Thumper that we had butchered. And on and on.

Only none of this ever made up for those stupid kids at school who decided they were going to make fun of me because I got free lunch, and because I was the new girl with the wierd name.

Some people never get it really. Like the blonde american girls. Some travelers shift and change, absorbing the world around them, impacting the places they visit by being human -- most just travel with their blinders on, imposing their pre-made vision of the world onto everyone unlucky enough to be in their path.

Nice entry wade . . .

Wade said...

Hello Sara Rose,

This is a really beautiful comment, and one which I will respond to with an email. . .. as soon as I cease bashing my head up against the wall with this website stuff.

Having fun, you know!

Miss you,

Wade

SaraRoseUp said...

Good, I look forward to hearing from you.

My point in all that was that the ways that others reflect our realities can either be really empowering, nurturing, positive or they can create rifts -- deep chasms between how we experience our lives and how others perceive our experience, that can sometimes take lifetimes to undo.

I was always so confused (and almost angry) by the people I would meet in South America who wanted everything that America represented, when what I saw there, in their culture was so lacking in my own. But I realized that they wanted the things my culture represented often because that rift had already been created by exactly the thing I was doing -- being in their country -- but done by people like the blond american girls in the style of tourism not the traveling.

Of course, it's also because of movies and magazines and internet and other things like that, which whisper these secret fantasies that breed discontent, even in the most cognizant, critical thinking people among us.

I guess I have a lot to say on this subject. It's so reflective of some of the experiences I had while traveling and really made me so conscious of being a human being in the world, rather than a walking advertisement for all the cultural baggage of the country that claims me. peace out -- sara d